There is a lot of information to absorb if you truly want to master the art of sedction however, many guys overlook the basic elements that are so critical because they are too worried about the bigger picture. For example grooming is one area where men often neglect thinking it’s a bit gay or “metrosexual” but the truth is that women like guys who look clean and who take care of themselves. If you can remember to keep up on basics like grooming, you’ll have that much more success in dating from the start.
You don’t have to look like a GQ Cover Boy
When we talk about grooming, we’re talking about shaving, having fresh breath, getting a clean haircut, and other stuff like that. You don’t have to look like you just stepped out of GQ, but you should look clean and neat if you really want to impress the ladies. Styles come and go, but a well-groomed guy will never go out of fashion. Once you can create a presentable, well-groomed version of yourself you will be able to make a much better impression and follow the rest of the steps for success in relationships, dating, and even just a one night stand!
Don’t Over Do It
This doesn’t mean that you have to go to the extreme. If you’ve got a shaggy haircut, just make sure that you take the time to make it look nice. If you have a beard or goatee that you can’t live without, you don’t have to get rid of it. Just clean it up, because a woman will see how you take care of yourself as a reflection of how well you could take care of her. It’s a little crazy to base your care and compassion levels on your looks, but that’s how women see things. Instead of balking at the pressure to conform to what women like to see, just accept the fact that taking care of yourself is a part of the bigger picture in snagging the chicks that you want in your life.
Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself
Before you go out to meet women, and especially before you go out on a date, take the time to clean yourself up. Make sure that you’ve got on clean clothes that aren’t wrinkled or look like they belong to a hobo. Take the time to brush your teeth, carry gum or mints with you for occasional refreshers, and clean up your shave. We’re all subject to these rules and ideals that women have about what men should be. If you don’t care about how you look, why should they?
It doesn’t matter if you like being lazy, sloppy, or just don’t feel like shaving every single day. All that matters is that you can pull off the basics of personal care so that the ladies get the impression that you care about your looks and like to be clean and neat.