The art of dating involves getting noticed by women and presenting yourself in the right manner. There are plenty of different things that you can do to get yourself noticed, and here are 5 of my suggested ways;
1. Invest in yourself
If you don’t think you’re worth the effort, why should she? Chicks dig guys who take the time to clean themselves up, pick out nice clothes, and make themselves presentable. Work on improving your confidence, learning about dating, and improving other areas of your life. You’re probably not the best version of yourself if you are here, and you need to change that. If you can invest in your own improvement, you will quickly start getting more attention from chicks all over the place.
2. Be confident
It sounds really obvious and isn’t as easy as it seems, but it needs to be done. Show them that you can move and talk slowly, deliberately, and with sincerity. Don’t break eye contact when you’re talking to chicks unless they do first. All of these little things show women that you’re confident and ready to interact with them without being a nervous, anxious wuss.
3. Make sure that you are anything but average, expected or ordinary
Women expect men to tell them how attractive they are. They expect cheesy cliché lines and pickup lines. They are used to the ordinary, average man who can only tell a woman how great she looks and then is too nervous to say anything else. Don’t be that guy. Don’t walk up and ask for her number right away. Don’t use pickup lines. Finally, don’t kiss up to the chicks that you meet because they’re women. Just treat them like other people. When they see that you’re different, they’ll notice you more.
4. Be classy and direct when you talk to chicks
You have to tell them exactly what’s up. If you beat around the bush or try to trick these girls into going out with you, they’re going to catch on and put you in the ‘typical guy’ category. We have all been there and it’s much easier to do what’s comfortable. Of course, comfort isn’t getting you the chicks that you want now, is it? Be direct, and do it in a respectable fashion. You’ll catch her off guard and she’ll appreciate the directness.
5. Take back control
Women know that they’re intimidating to us guys. They use that against us to hold the control in the conversation and make us turn into spineless puppets. It’s something that’s been happening for years. You need to take back that control by being confident and showing her that you’re in charge. Don’t be arrogant but let her know that you’ve got this under control and that she can come along if she wants.